Who's Still Thinking About You? (PAC Reading)
Who's still thinking about YOU? — Pick-A-Card reading. Pick the scene(s) you feel called to. I appreciate any feedback, and thanks for reading!
1 — Time and Space !Scene 1
A person you want to talk to wants to talk to you too. There are a lot of unexpressed feelings here — it feels like two people who grew apart or had to move away from each other. There could have been a false start, or things that prevented you from fully having a relationship or knowing each other. A lot of things feel like forced choices or circumstances.
They imagine you as doing very well: someone who works hard to surround themselves with the things they want in life. It's almost like they don't want to bother you or disturb your peace. They have an idealized version of you in their head. At one time you were the complete package to them, or did things that were very in tune with what they wanted from a connection. You may have been more soft and nurturing than what they were normally used to.
They are definitely thinking about the times you had together and craving more. In some ways, you deeply satisfied them and no one has given them the same feeling since you. They wish you would visit them or that they could see you again. This person thinks about reaching out to you often and looks at your social medias or checks on you in any way they can. However, they are hoping you reach out to them first.
2 — Give and Take !Scene 2
There may have been a lot of arguments, a bad breakup, or even a toxic relationship you recently moved on from. This person stopped meeting your standards, or you saw that they were never actually capable of doing so. Maybe they were presenting themselves as better, or doing things they couldn't maintain over time. Age difference or emotional immaturity that should have been corrected by their age is significant. They may be thinking they can improve themselves to win you back, or have one up on you.
They may be dating someone new or claiming they've moved on, but deep down they are still emotionally attached to you. This may be especially hard because they had a lot of hopes for this connection, or you may have planned a lot of things for your futures together. This person is still very much upset and possibly vindictive or petty toward you because of this. They are struggling with the idea of fully moving on and wondering if there is any way they can get your attention.
3 — Knowing Your Worth !Scene 3
You may have left this person or situation to protect your peace after you felt unappreciated or betrayed. This is someone who is depressed, has a lot of baggage, or is often sick. This person is likely older, could have a higher position, or just thought they were superior to you in some way.
I wouldn't necessarily say regret, but this person does feel bad for how they treated you at certain times or how things ended between you. Your absence made this person realize just how meaningful your presence is. They could have been a lot more grateful or gracious toward you. They have thought about reaching out, but you already blocked them, or they feel like you would not want to hear them out after everything. A lot of things were felt but never said here. They wish they would have listened to you more or taken what you weren't saying to them into consideration. If you were going through a harder time than they originally thought, they are more aware of that now.